The powers of regret and promise
Briefly
- what is karma
- what are the four results of one actions
- what do we purify
How do we purify
The four powers
- The power of regret
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Clarifying the difference between guilt and regret.
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In Joyful Path (power of regret) Venerable Geshe-la says:
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We develop regret by remembering all the dangers of our negativity.
this is practical but hard so need to approach this gently
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The stronger our regret, the stronger our restraint.
This is an insight for the importance of regret
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- The power of promise
- exploring the act of promising - what helps us keep a promise, what may be the reasons we break promises
From the dictionary
guilt (ɡɪlt) n
- the fact or state of having done wrong or committed an offence
- (Law) responsibility for a criminal or moral offence deserving punishment or a penalty
- remorse or self-reproach caused by feeling that one is responsible for a wrong or offence
- archaic sin or crime
From chatGPT
Regret is about wishing something had been different — an event, a choice, or an outcome.
Guilt is about feeling responsible for harm — it carries a moral or ethical weight.
For example:
- You might regret missing an opportunity to visit a friend before they moved away.
- You might feel guilty if you promised to visit but didn’t, and your absence caused them pain.
Practicle take away
Explore how can these two forces be practiced:
- In meditation
- During our daily activities